36: Ditch the Small Talk: A New Way to Network with Confidence, Clarity, and Connection

Welcome to the Unshakable Confidence podcast with Coco Duan — where high-achieving women who secretly struggle with self-doubt learn to build real, lasting confidence from the inside out.

In this episode, Coco shares her personal transformation from dreading networking to building a powerful, life-giving support system—and how you can do the same.

If networking has ever felt icky, awkward, or misaligned with your values, this is for you.

Through her 3M Framework—Mindset, Method, and Micro-Bravery—Coco walks you step-by-step through a new approach to networking that feels natural, energizing, and deeply connected.

💡 In this episode, you’ll learn:

Why traditional networking feels so off (and what to do instead)
The common limiting beliefs that keep high-achievers from building strong connections
How to rewire your mindset around networking and redefine what it means to you
Coco’s story of rebuilding her entire support system from scratch—and the lessons she learned
The 3M Framework for authentic relationship-building:
1. Mindset – Reframe networking as building rich, mutually supportive relationships
2. Method – Where and how to meet aligned people and connect deeply
3. Micro-Bravery – How to take small courageous actions that stretch your confidence
How to nurture and activate your relationships over time with generosity, clarity, and intention

✨ Coco’s Favorite Feel-Good Questions (for deeper conversations):

“How did you get into your profession?”
“What do you enjoy most about what you do?”
“What advice would you give your younger self?”
(Find more in the show notes or visit CocoDuanCoaching.com)

❤️ One powerful reminder:

“Networking isn’t about being interesting. It’s about being interested.”

Coco Duan helps High-Achieving yet Self-Doubting women executives build their Grounded Confidence to become unstoppable in achieving their goals.

For VIP, step-by-step, systematic support, apply now for Coco’s transformative “Build Your Grounded Confidence” VIP Coaching Program.
This is your chance to work directly with Coco and unlock the tools, strategies, and mindset shifts you need to thrive. Once you apply, Coco will personally reach out to invite you to a free consultation call to explore how this program can help you achieve your goals.