Recorded from a tiny island next to Bali, this episode is close to my heart.
I’m halfway through a two-week surf camp in Lombok, Indonesia — and between the sun, salt water, and wipeouts, I realized something powerful:
We can’t stop the waves.
But we can learn to surf them.
Over the past two months, I’ve been learning to surf both in the ocean and in life — using nervous system regulation and parts work to stay calm, grounded, and self-led through uncertainty.
In this episode, I share:
- 🌿 How a 21-day somatic journey helped me create calm aliveness from the inside out
- 💡 Real-life “waves” I faced — from home repairs to an injury — and how I stayed regulated through each
- ❤️ How I learned to lead from my wise adult instead of my anxious or critical parts
- 🌊 Why true confidence isn’t about avoiding challenges, but meeting them with grounded presence
If you’ve ever felt like life keeps throwing one wave after another your way, this episode will remind you that peace isn’t found after the storm — it’s built in the middle of it.
👉 Want to build your Unshakable Confidence? I offer a free 45-minute clarity call to help you gain insight into where you are now, where you want to go, and what’s holding you back. If you’re ready to take action, email me at coco@nullcocoduancoaching.com.
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Until next time, remember: Be kind to yourself.